Don't let old traditional ways stop you from becoming who you want to be. I feel like a lot of the support I'm getting from family and friends and the community that I've built around me is what makes me who I am today.
Kai Coyne
Joy of Being Featured Storyteller
Kai Coyne is an 18-year-old transgender artist of Native American and white heritage who grew up on the East Side of Saint Paul, Minnesota. A visual artist who enjoys traditional drawing, particularly working with pens, Kai uses creativity as one way to express himself and explore his identity.
As a young trans man, Kai has navigated the challenges of self-discovery, cultural expectations, and finding acceptance within his family, school, and community. Through the unconditional support of his sister, parents, and close friends, Kai has developed a stronger sense of confidence and belonging. His experiences have also shaped his understanding of the challenges Native LGBTQ+ youth can face when navigating cultural traditions and expectations.
As a participant in In Progress's Joy of Being project, Kai shares his journey toward self-acceptance and the freedom that comes with living authentically. His story reflects the importance of family support, community, and creating spaces where young people can explore their identities without fear of judgment. For Kai, the joy of being means living in the moment and embracing who you are without doubt.
Podcasts
Without a Doubt
Finding joy in living authentically
18-year-old Kai Coyne, a transgender artist, shares his journey of self-discovery, acceptance, and growing up on the East Side of Saint Paul. In conversation with Xee Reiter, Kai reflects on navigating cultural expectations, finding unconditional support from family and friends, and overcoming the fear of being misunderstood. His story celebrates the confidence that comes with embracing who you are and finding joy in living authentically, without a doubt.
My sister was the first person that I ever confided in with all of this information. And ever since I told her, it felt less suffocating to tell other people, because she showed me unconditional love and support no matter what.
The Joy of Standing Beside You
a story of unconditional love
Caley Elliot shares her experience supporting her younger brother, Kai, through his journey of coming out as transgender, reflecting on the importance of unconditional love, family acceptance, and the bond between siblings. Caley discusses the challenges of navigating cultural expectations and discrimination within their community, while celebrating the confidence and happiness she has witnessed in Kai as he has grown into himself. Her story reminds us that acceptance begins with listening, respecting one another's identities, and finding joy in helping those we love live authentically.
It's About Them
embracing my child's journey
Rachel Coyne shares her experience as the mother of a transgender son, reflecting on the challenges, fears, and personal growth that have accompanied Kai's journey of self-discovery. In conversation with TJ Lor, Rachel speaks candidly about navigating generational differences, learning to support her son, and balancing a parent's instinct to protect with the importance of allowing children to live authentically. Her story offers a heartfelt reminder that unconditional love, open communication, and acceptance are at the heart of supporting our children as they become who they are.
This activity is made possible in part by the voters of Minnesota thanks to a legislative appropriation from the arts and cultural heritage fund, MN State Arts Board GEneral Operating Program, and the Northwest Minnesota Arts Council. Additional thanks to the McKnight Foundation who has continually supported arts learning and professional development opportunities for artists in Saint Paul and Crookston Minnesota.